今年将是而立之年,多年的奋斗,能走到今天,会有很多人生感味,决定写下来与众人分享。其中酸甜苦辣,当然只有我心知,非常感谢我的父母,they are always a bright light in the darkness, lead me to the success.
本人从试IT业,现在居住在Melbourne, Australia,惭愧,仍然单身。03到05年在Monash University书,之后移民,接下回到故乡北京在Microsoft和Boeing就职,直到08年回到Melbourne继续从事IT业,原因无非是那张贴在护照上的label,cannot make me to stay China too long。父母还是希望我入籍会稳妥一些,与我来讲,无所谓,Australia to me, big land but a small country。sunshine, blue sky, fresh air and freedom ... well, must be a lot people say that, but I say it's just surface, competition actually everywhere especially to an immigrant. No matter where we are, top of everything, make sure have a life plan to self, what you like to do, what you want to be, what's your value to the society, what's responsibility?
Cannot say it more important to set aim before to do anything, whether like it, what's expected result, how to leverage gain and lose ... I would say it's the basic rule before do anything especially any big desicsion. 在远离父母,独立在外的几年当中,潜移默化中会发现自己相当大变化, especially changes deep into the personality and character,也许这就是我们经常说的成熟。我还是很怀念当时在中国读书的时候,和父母在一起无忧无虑的时光。如今父母已白发沧桑,而自己在海的另一边打拼,I cannot say this is the life I want, 但是至少父母给了我很大的支持。
先到这里, to be continued ...
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